Loss

Saying goodbye is always hard. Sometimes it’s not your choice. Sometimes it’s just goodbye to the way things were. Sometimes it’s forever. Either way, it hurts. Time is irrelevant. You can know the person for 15 years, 7 years or 3 months. If the relationship was meaningful, time means nothing.

The thoughts that fill my head in the aftermath of “goodbye” are a mishmash of pleasant thoughts of what was and imagining what will never be. Conversations that you thought would happen…one day. Learning more about that person. Growing because that person is was in your life. Celebrating achievements. Sharing ideas, thoughts, hopes. Seeing them come into fruition.

But all we can do is say goodbye to yesterday. We can’t live there. And that’s ok. The future is bright. (Fingers crossed)

Thanks for reading x